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Thursday, January 01, 2026

This Year's Intentions

I took this photo at Maker Faire last fall. It's difficult to explain what this was, but people were invited to enter into this space of whirling light. It depicts how time feels to me. Soon enough we'll say good-bye to 2026. Here is what I aim for in my life practice.

Daily

  • I will continue to meditate daily for five minutes; it's the holy pause, and even brief episodes have a positive impact.
  • Each day I walk, at a minimum, 2,000 steps; given my sedentary job and life, it stuns me how few steps I could take if I don't make the effort. Last year my average was 4,835 steps (2.28 miles per day).
  • Read a book -- it requires deep attention.

Weekly

  • Make art. It can be small, quick, and simple. Or it can be elaborate.
  • Seek and invite spending time with my child, who is leaving in eight months.
  • Date night with Hub; this has vastly improved our connection in the past several years.
  • See clients -- my work, which I really enjoy.
  • Exercise four to five times a week, including strength training.
  • Write one blog entry.

Monthly

  • See friends!
  • Go on side quests with Hub.
  • Attend Open Studio with friends.

Yearly

  • Improve overall physical fitness, including shedding more weight.
  • Read at least 30 books.
  • Travel with Hub on a couple of trips.
  • Get my child moved to college.
  • Explore and create new community.
  • Attend a few Ecstatic Dances.
Throughout the year I will check in with myself to ensure I'm attending to these small projects that help me to live richly. 

Sunday, June 15, 2025

All Kinds of Things for Love


[A Debt]

in a dream, i saw my mother
before she was made mine. her
life still unburdened by the weight
of raising someone. no one has left her
to be in a grave & she is yet to know
where the nearest cemetery is. 
when she runs across the field, no tiny footprints 
gather next to her steps. her 
hunger simply hers alone. 
we do all kinds of things for love. look at me. 
look at me returning her life to her. 
even in a dream.
--noor unnahar